Why does it have to end?

May

2004

A friend once asked me, why does it have to end when there’s still love. Well, when one ends it, I say, it’s not but chance, but by choice. And the infamous question would then pop out, “Is Love by Chance or by Choice?” Well, this would sound familiar to you if you have received a forwarded e-mail regarding the said topic. Again, it depends on the other party if he or she would want the love to grow or just stop. And yes, it takes two to tango. If one is willing where the other is not, then nothing will really happen. Oh well, that’s life and yes, sometimes we are just blinded by the idea of forever because in reality nothing lasts forever. At some point, something will just stop unexpectedly.
When love ends, it is not the end of the world indeed. Time flies and you have to move on with it. You cannot be in the Pause Mode for a moment just because it hit and smashed you right there and there. Life’s like this, it is always in the Play Mode, running continuously, no pauses, no rewinds, or even forwards… only play and stop.

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7 Responses to “Why does it have to end?”

jo
March 11th, 2006 at 4:40 pm

i was just luking 4 bobong’s web wen suddenly urarchive apird…yep by choice nga un wen it ends…im knda hartbroken p…but sumhow ur post ws sort of insprxnl hehe…
Karla Redor
March 11th, 2006 at 5:31 pm

wow.. thanks for saying that jo..
EllaH
February 8th, 2009 at 7:06 am

ganda ng meaning.. nakakarelate ako… yeah, we need to move on and accept that forever does not exist…ouch..
jheck
September 1st, 2009 at 6:25 pm

we all know that nothing last forever, its just that when we chose to love, we hope that that love will last for a lifetime so when it ends we are hurt….

ok lang naman ma-hurt, it’s one of the spices life offers us to be a better person…

peace!
dumped
September 24th, 2009 at 11:36 am

this is so true. i did everything i could to have him back but he chose to turn around and walk away. it’s so hard to come to terms with the fact that he’s out of my life and there’s nothing i can do about it. well, life goes on and i’m the only one who can help myself get through this. i still find myself trying to fight back the tears. i’m hurting so badly but i know this shall pass.
lonely angel
March 14th, 2010 at 9:06 pm

its true learn to let go and move on..theres no such thing as forever its only in fairy tales..,, never regret on things you did in the past..don’t ask your self what you dint do or what you did if any relationships end up.. thats life everything has an ending.. live your life and be happy..
hatidlam
July 2nd, 2010 at 12:35 am

ika nga eh.. wag kang magmahal kung di ka handang masaktan hehe…

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